Thursday 24 November 2011

Perverts and the art of judging other people

Erotic is when a man caresses his girlfriend with a feather.

Perverted is when he takes a whole chicken for this. 

 

Fun quote. And that basically explains everything. Many people don't understand the difference. But where is the limit? Where is that thin line between right and wrong? 
Some people I've met over the years see everything as being wrong. Things most of the population do and have been doing for ages now make people sick to their stomachs. Maybe even thinking about regular old-fashioned intercourse makes them ill. 

On the other hand, we have people with no shame. "Sharing is fun", "who, what, where and how are not important details" and so many other things. What do you see as being wrong? 

I see having more than two people as being wrong. Other people make it into a team sport, while on the other hand, some people don't even know what their bodies can do (yes, I'm talking about that thing people do with their hands). 

But... how do we solve this great dilemma? A problem causing so much hatred in our community for so long needs a solution! EASY! If you feel good doing it, your partner(s) feels good doing it and you don't share information to people that do not want to know about it, it should be okay! If it's consensual and you keep it private (unless you like showing it to people that WANT to see it) it shouldn't be a crime. Let me tell you, people do not get turned on from the same things. 

So, just relax. Think about what you're going to do, why and with who. Be honest to them. USE PROTECTION if you have multiple partners and get checked out at your local clinic. 

The rules in any such act are: don't involve drugs or alcohol, make sure they want it (animals don't want it, that's sick), do not insist on something the other person does not want to do and stop judging people. We're not the same. 

PS: If you're on the edge of a nervous breakdown, don't take your frustrations out on other people. Just, get laid or something...

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